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MINDFULNESS – The Gentle Art of Coming Back to Now
The Gentle Art of Coming Back to Now

🌬️ MINDFULNESS

“Mindfulness isn’t difficult, we just need to remember to do it.” – Sharon Salzberg

Mindfulness is the moment you remember you’re here—not in the past you’re replaying or the future you’re fearing, but this breath, this step, this now. For ADHDers, whose minds often leap, race, spiral, and scatter, mindfulness can feel like a miracle. Not because it fixes everything—but because it creates space.

In the ADHD terrain, being present is no small task. We get pulled by distractions, hijacked by emotions, or caught in the rapid-fire swirl of thoughts. But mindfulness isn’t about silencing the noise. It’s about noticing it—without judgment. It’s choosing to witness your experience rather than get swallowed by it.

Living this value means making room for stillness in a world (and brain) that rarely stops. It’s finding small rituals of grounding—whether through breath, movement, nature, or sensory check-ins. It’s building awareness of what’s happening inside before reacting outside.

Mindfulness helps regulate emotion, strengthen attention, and soften shame. It gives ADHDers the pause between impulse and intention. And in that pause, we regain our power to choose what matters most.

🥾 Walking with Intention

🧭 The HOPE Trail Map

  • Helps or Harms: Am I reacting automatically—or responding with awareness?
  • Own My Values: I want to be someone who returns to the present, even if I’ve drifted a thousand times.
  • People and Pursuits: Who helps me feel grounded? What activities or environments help me stay connected to the now?
  • Enact and Evaluate: Today, I’ll take one mindful pause—a breath, a stretch, a moment to see rather than speed through.
🚧 Stumbling Blocks

⚠️ Trail Challenges

  • ADHD brains crave stimulation and may resist stillness.
  • Perfectionism can turn mindfulness into another task to “master.”
  • Self-judgment may arise when the mind inevitably wanders.
🌱 Signposts of Progress

🪧 Trail Markers: Small Steps Toward Mindfulness

  • Do a 3-2-1 check-in: 3 things you see, 2 you hear, 1 you feel.
  • Set a cue (e.g., red light, sip of tea) as a reminder to return to your breath.
  • Repeat a grounding mantra: “This moment is enough.”
🕯️ Honest Questions, Gentle Light

🔥 Campfire Questions for Reflection

  • What does presence feel like in my body?
  • How might a little more mindfulness shift how I relate to chaos or emotion?
  • What’s one daily moment I could turn into a mindful ritual?

Mindfulness is not escaping the storm—it’s learning to stand in it with awareness, and maybe even wonder. For ADHDers, that awareness becomes the bridge back to choice.

Dr Manaan Kar Ray

Dr Manaan Kar Ray is a psychiatrist, author, and international leader in mental health innovation. Trained in Oxford and currently based in Brisbane, Australia, he serves as Director of Adult Mental Health at Princess Alexandra Hospital. Dr Kar Ray is the creator of the HOPE framework, a compassionate, values-based model for navigating life with ADHD and emotional overwhelm. He has authored multiple books on ADHD, suicide prevention, and values-led living, and is the founder of Progress Guide, an organisation committed to evidence-based, person-centred care. Through his work, Dr Kar Ray blends clinical insight with metaphor-rich storytelling to help people rediscover clarity, courage, and connection on life’s toughest trails.