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PERSEVERANCE – Continuing the Climb, Even When the Trail Disappears
Continuing the Climb, Even When the Trail Disappears

🪨 PERSEVERANCE

“Perseverance is not a long race; it is many short races one after the other.” – Walter Elliot

Perseverance is the quiet decision to keep going—through setbacks, slips, spirals, and slow seasons. For ADHDers, whose lives are often filled with restarts and reroutes, perseverance is more than willpower. It’s resilience in motion. It’s the strength to begin again… again.

In the ADHD terrain, progress is rarely linear. Some days we’re flying; others, we can’t even find the trailhead. Living this value means not measuring your worth by momentum. It’s about remembering that just returning to the path—even after detours or delays—is a victory in itself.

Perseverance doesn’t mean pushing through pain without care. It means holding on to what matters, even when motivation wavers or obstacles grow tall. It’s about pacing yourself, building scaffolds of support, and trusting that one small step—taken again and again—can carry you farther than any burst of brilliance.

This value turns ADHD’s fits-and-starts into something honorable: a journey of persistence. A rhythm of fall, rise, learn, and continue.

🥾 Walking with Intention

🧭 The HOPE Trail Map

  • Helps or Harms: Am I continuing out of alignment or because something still feels true?
  • Own My Values: I want to be someone who keeps moving toward meaning, even when the way is hard.
  • People and Pursuits: Who believes in my ability to keep going? What long-view goals or values help me recommit when I falter?
  • Enact and Evaluate: Today, I’ll return to something I left undone—not to perfect it, but to honour the part of me that still cares.
🚧 Stumbling Blocks

⚠️ Trail Challenges

  • Repeated setbacks can erode self-trust and spark shame.
  • ADHDers may struggle to sustain interest or energy over time.
  • Overwhelm or perfectionism may block re-entry after a lapse.
🌱 Signposts of Progress

🪧 Trail Markers: Small Steps Toward Perseverance

  • Reopen a project you abandoned—just explore, no pressure.
  • Create a visual reminder of past moments you kept going.
  • Use the mantra: “Begin again. That’s still progress.”
🕯️ Honest Questions, Gentle Light

🔥 Campfire Questions for Reflection

  • What’s something I’ve kept returning to, even when it was hard?
  • How do I honour persistence in myself—even when no one sees it?
  • What helps me restart without shame when I’ve veered off track?

Perseverance is not about never stopping. It’s about choosing, again and again, to move in the direction of what matters.

Dr Manaan Kar Ray

Dr Manaan Kar Ray is a psychiatrist, author, and international leader in mental health innovation. Trained in Oxford and currently based in Brisbane, Australia, he serves as Director of Adult Mental Health at Princess Alexandra Hospital. Dr Kar Ray is the creator of the HOPE framework, a compassionate, values-based model for navigating life with ADHD and emotional overwhelm. He has authored multiple books on ADHD, suicide prevention, and values-led living, and is the founder of Progress Guide, an organisation committed to evidence-based, person-centred care. Through his work, Dr Kar Ray blends clinical insight with metaphor-rich storytelling to help people rediscover clarity, courage, and connection on life’s toughest trails.